Monday, June 26, 2006

原谅

什么是原谅?

是不是一定要把一切不愉快都忘了, 才算原谅了?

忘不了, 就不算原谅?

那么, 对于健忘的我, 原谅应该很容易.

可是, 我却偏偏忘不了.

我要记得把一切忘掉...

不愉快的, 已经过去, 已经不重要.

太执著, 会毁了现有的快乐.

18 comments:

KHS 2005 [6/1] said...

Are u all right???

Unknown said...

aiyo peifenjie, u ok???

simplysincerity said...

hey peifen jie!

u ok mah? if u're feeling down then maybe u can find something that u lyk to do to unwind.. maybe shopping spree or sumthing lyk that.. do cheer up soon ya?

Peng Ru said...

Aiyoh...what happened to you? Peifen, don be so pessimistic...although i don know what happened, but...just cheer up, ok? Just stay happy...like you've always told us

iori82 said...

Peifen 你好。

其实你一定是遇到了一些难题吧。我觉得愈是面对繁复的难题,愈要保持思路的简洁清晰,善用经验与创意,就能克服瓶颈找到解答的秘诀。

我希望你能不被这件事困扰,何必强制自己去忘记?其实你越是想忘记你就会越记得。所以你应该保持快乐的心态,那么自然而然那件事就会放下。到时你就会发现原谅一个人比恨还容易得多。

能让你这般忘不了想必是件让你无法接受的事实。能不能放下就要靠自己了。其实现实就是这样。当你一喂要求知道真相,让你知道了又无法接受。所以不要太执著也未必是件坏事。所以对自己诚实可以明心见性;对别人诚实可以问心无愧。

希望能看到你美丽的笑容,不要再想过去的事了。你瞧我多么羡慕你。一不开心就有好多人来安慰你。我想你不开心也只是短暂的吧。

With that I shall end my words here. Take care and hope to see your next entry is a happy one. :)

S.a.p.p.h.i.r.e said...
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S.a.p.p.h.i.r.e said...

佩芬,



时间停止转动,悲伤开始放纵

你的一举一动,打在心里很痛

快乐开始歌颂,你要学会感动

忘掉心中的痛,填补那些裂缝

原諒一切你會發現只是一場夢.

S.a.p.p.h.i.r.e

S.a.p.p.h.i.r.e said...
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Evonne said...

hmm wat had happened peifen jie ?

h.o.n.g.y.i. said...

peifen u all right or not?? cheer up! =)
Forgive doesn't mean forget;
Forget doesn't mean forgive..

forgive a person is not easy..especially if he/she hurt u badly.. must use ur heart to forgive a person..not ur mouth sayin," ur forgiven.."

cheer up!! NKSCB ROX!!

kangaroo said...

i think forgiving is not forgetting. if forgetting is possible, i'm probably senile. forgiving to me, is accepting. to accept that a mistake has become a fact. and to help prevent that fact from happening again.

why do we have to forgive at first? why do bad things have to happen? and why do people have to say sorry? >_<

well, that's all part of life. isn't this all part of learning and growing up? =)let's all look on the bright side!

pErfectNotpErfEcT said...

erm.. r u alright??? isit something happen on u ???

well...

chEEr Up GaLs ^^

purpleshadow said...

are u ok?--SHihui

Oceanblue said...

So far 在我的人生中只见过一个肯原谅伤害过她的人,这个人你也应该认识。她的名字叫“长什么的...对了!应该叫长今”。

et said...

"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."
-Mark Twain

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