Monday, June 26, 2006

原谅

什么是原谅?

是不是一定要把一切不愉快都忘了, 才算原谅了?

忘不了, 就不算原谅?

那么, 对于健忘的我, 原谅应该很容易.

可是, 我却偏偏忘不了.

我要记得把一切忘掉...

不愉快的, 已经过去, 已经不重要.

太执著, 会毁了现有的快乐.

28 comments:

KHS 2005 [6/1] said...

Are u all right???

jiayi said...

aiyo peifenjie, u ok???

edutitta said...

seems quite sad..something happened? well..cheer up. look on the bright side of life?

Squrriel said...

Peifen,

U extracted dis fm somewhr? U feeling downcast?

No matter what - Forget does not mean Forgive. One may forgive but may not forget.....
U may forgive a perosn but U may not forget what he/she has done to u.......

八儿 said...

Hi CCC,

Stand up for yourself. You have the right NOT to forgive someone that has hurt you. Think about it, without hate where can you find love ?

simplysincerity said...

hey peifen jie!

u ok mah? if u're feeling down then maybe u can find something that u lyk to do to unwind.. maybe shopping spree or sumthing lyk that.. do cheer up soon ya?

HUI`zAx said...

Peifen,

--"原諒“。 單看這兩個字﹐或許容易說的出﹐但是要從心裡的”眶眶“拿出”“原諒”這兩個子﹐ 真的須要很大的勇氣和仔細地想想。--

每個人在人生中﹐或多或少都須要面對如何原諒對方﹐但如果某人做出讓你不喻快的事﹐ 或許還蠻難的。但要把它忘掉﹐可以說是另一種“眶眶”吧。

Through out my whole life, I have gone through many "High and Lows". But I have managed to learn to forgive others who have really did some damage to my "Yet straight, but lots of cicumstances to overcome" life journal.

能不能原諒﹐應該本人才能做得出決定吧。能把它給忘掉更是最好的事。在熒幕上或者是電台裡的佩芬﹐給我一個很開朗﹐親切的DJ image,希望你走出這小小的“框框“。

稀客,
* Although I had met you through most of your outdoors live hosting , but I will definitely say out my name, when the time comes.

Peng Ru said...

Aiyoh...what happened to you? Peifen, don be so pessimistic...although i don know what happened, but...just cheer up, ok? Just stay happy...like you've always told us

Leslie C said...

Dear Peifen,

Pls Learning " SEE OPEN A BIT ".

iori82 said...

Peifen 你好。

其实你一定是遇到了一些难题吧。我觉得愈是面对繁复的难题,愈要保持思路的简洁清晰,善用经验与创意,就能克服瓶颈找到解答的秘诀。

我希望你能不被这件事困扰,何必强制自己去忘记?其实你越是想忘记你就会越记得。所以你应该保持快乐的心态,那么自然而然那件事就会放下。到时你就会发现原谅一个人比恨还容易得多。

能让你这般忘不了想必是件让你无法接受的事实。能不能放下就要靠自己了。其实现实就是这样。当你一喂要求知道真相,让你知道了又无法接受。所以不要太执著也未必是件坏事。所以对自己诚实可以明心见性;对别人诚实可以问心无愧。

希望能看到你美丽的笑容,不要再想过去的事了。你瞧我多么羡慕你。一不开心就有好多人来安慰你。我想你不开心也只是短暂的吧。

With that I shall end my words here. Take care and hope to see your next entry is a happy one. :)

S.a.p.p.h.i.r.e said...
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S.a.p.p.h.i.r.e said...

佩芬,



时间停止转动,悲伤开始放纵

你的一举一动,打在心里很痛

快乐开始歌颂,你要学会感动

忘掉心中的痛,填补那些裂缝

原諒一切你會發現只是一場夢.

S.a.p.p.h.i.r.e

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Evonne said...

hmm wat had happened peifen jie ?

c.h.-yi- said...

peifen u all right or not?? cheer up! =)
Forgive doesn't mean forget;
Forget doesn't mean forgive..

forgive a person is not easy..especially if he/she hurt u badly.. must use ur heart to forgive a person..not ur mouth sayin," ur forgiven.."

cheer up!! NKSCB ROX!!

kangaroo said...

i think forgiving is not forgetting. if forgetting is possible, i'm probably senile. forgiving to me, is accepting. to accept that a mistake has become a fact. and to help prevent that fact from happening again.

why do we have to forgive at first? why do bad things have to happen? and why do people have to say sorry? >_<

well, that's all part of life. isn't this all part of learning and growing up? =)let's all look on the bright side!

rain said...

erm.. r u alright??? isit something happen on u ???

well...

chEEr Up GaLs ^^

purpleshadow said...

are u ok?--SHihui

Oceanblue said...

So far 在我的人生中只见过一个肯原谅伤害过她的人,这个人你也应该认识。她的名字叫“长什么的...对了!应该叫长今”。

Boyzz said...

"原谅"-说出来很容易~做起来很难!!
"原谅"-两个看起来小小的字眼..可是意义非凡!!
"原谅"-世界一大难事

嘴里说"原谅",可是心里也能原谅吗??!!
一旦"原谅"了...心里也会感觉踏实多了!!

所以,学着"原谅"..原谅别人也等于原谅自己!!
:)

et said...

"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."
-Mark Twain

|| Xvodia || said...

忘记的不一定叫做原谅。

放不下始终是放不下,哪天突然想起还是会胡思乱想。

真正放得下才是原谅,即使没忘也只当它是美好的回忆。

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