Monday, July 11, 2005

爱情...

上星期天晚上出席了 933 宣传经理 nix 和老公 peter 的婚宴.

为他们感到高兴, 是一定的. 见证有情人终成眷属, 不只我, 全场都喜气洋洋.

两个人的幸福传播至到场祝贺的每个人心中. 原来真爱的感染力如此强大.


对于爱, 我有一些感想...

积极寻找真爱, 惟恐操之过急, 过于勉强. 耐心等待真爱, 又怕错失良机, 后悔莫极.

最好是保持一种处于积极和消极, 乐观与悲观之间的心态, 不要想太多.


时机成熟, 真爱真的出现了, 自有分晓. 是时候, 就采取适当的行动.

当然, 行动需要莫大的勇气. 而以上的 "不要想太多", 也没那么容易.

纸上谈兵, 说说而已.

对于婚姻, 也有一些想法...

有些人以为婚姻就象童话故事结局一样, 两个人踏上红地毯之后就是 "Happily ever after".

婚后的幸福因此显得是理所当然的...不费吹灰之力就会从天而降.

你以为.

这些人往往在婚后就不再花心思制造浪漫, 导致婚姻随着岁月老去, 淡化.

把婚姻视为美满结局, 它就会变成爱情的坟墓.

结婚应该是一个开始, 一个起点.

象当初追求对方时一样, 婚后更要加倍努力, 取悦, 呵护, 疼爱这一生的伴侣.

我是这么认为.

不过...说归说, 真要做到有多难, 我不知道.

纸上谈兵, 说说而已. :)

18 comments:

YuNz said...

pei fen。。 说得真有理。。 我挺你到底。。

brokenn heart said...

haiish.. hp spoil.. no chance to listen to zhi yong n peifen's dj-ing.. so sad.. bud ii still can get to sleep.. hahax..

yeah.. lurbe hurts pp feelings.. n it hurt moii too.. it hurt moii again n agaiin.. it reali hurts , ii noe the feeling.. =[.. advice pls !!

Jerry^_^ said...

broken heart: fall down jiu pa qi lai, you le zhe zhong zhong de kao yan, yong gan qu mian dui xin de tiao zhan ( new love ) ! :D

Thomas said...

纸上谈兵, 说说而已

BuGz said...

Oh.. My chinese cmi, have difficulty reading it.

WinZ said...

莫文尉曾经唱过:“爱是折磨人的东西,却又舍不得这样放弃...”

爱情也许就是这样...

小嬡 said...

对于爱,小嫒好期待。。。

brokenn heart said...

jerry , thanks fer your advice again n again.. beri grateful to euu..

bud i haf no strength to climb up after being so hurt lerx.. ii reali too tired over tis love tiingy

its impossible fer moii to ask hiim to be wid moi , bud ii jux hope he will b happily eva after .. dats all ii wish fer =[

* advice pls

Koo Xing Yu said...

yo..whenz ur?? lol..invite me.. :p

Anyway, agree to all of ur sayings.. hee..

Evonne said...

glad that nix found her xin fu...although know her just about a year...or less den a year...but still treat her as a fren...so will still happy that nix found her xin fu...

loser said...

yah! when's ur xing fu? ai hen wei da!

~justin~ said...

难得用华语哦~!

StarDust said...

peifen 好像有点想得太多了。嘻嘻。我觉得有时候不需要考虑得太多,凭着自己的感觉走,想做就做,想爱就敢敢爱,才是最大的享受哦!

crazy fan of yanzi n chongqing said...

mm... ur words set me thinking really hard... love is a painful thing... n somethings, happiness n pain seem to be a split second away...

oh wells, peifen ah... may u n ur bf be happy always n step on red carpet soon ahz! ;)

dEviLz said...

pei fen. euu type until so0 chiim. ii dun understand. 0r rather ii hv difficulties reaDiin it. )):

-xiiao miin` said...

pei fen...i agree wat eu sae...i support eu!

Lu_Bu A.k.a 永宏 said...

Aiyo, 对不起哦 佩芬姐,昨天的庆功见面会
我身负重任,无法到场去凑热闹,就这样少看到一个支持933的帅弟Haiz..=x 不要扁我哦,
那次被扁我都还没跟你领医药费 =x

不过没关系,我虽人没到我的心却有到哦~
933万岁~
对了。。。别问我是啥重任了...不就是那两个拜一要交的project咯 -.-

噢还有,那天有位叫永权的sms把歌点给我对吧?谢咯~ ^^

et said...

"纸上谈兵"...

A good general needs his strategy at all times.
A good sergeant needs to be ready to strike when chance comes.

We are all adept at becoming good generals during peacetime;
but when it comes to wartime,
how many of us live up to be good sergeants?